The rule
Dependence belongs to the whole set, not to one vector. The set {A, B, C} is dependent when some combination with not-all-zero weights gives 0:
x·A + y·B + z·C = 0
Any vector whose weight is non-zero can be moved to the other side and rebuilt from the rest. A vector whose weight is 0 cannot.
Pairs are not enough
With C = A + B, no two of the three vectors are parallel, yet all three are dependent. Test all of them together: for n vectors in ℝⁿ, dependent means det = 0; otherwise row-reduce.